Decouple interactions from hands, cleanup old events, add new fears (#28393)

* ok basic shit

* second part

* pretend it isn't real it can't hurt you.

* 👁️ 👁️

* shadowcommander review

Content.Shared/Weapons/Misc/SharedTetherGunSystem.Force.cs

@@ -14,6 +14,9 @@ public abstract partial class SharedTetherGunSystem
 
     private void OnForceActivate(EntityUid uid, ForceGunComponent component, ActivateInWorldEvent args)
     {
+        if (!args.Complex)
+            return;
+
         StopTether(uid, component);
     }