Decouple interactions from hands, cleanup old events, add new fears (#28393)

* ok basic shit

* second part

* pretend it isn't real it can't hurt you.

* 👁️ 👁️

* shadowcommander review

Content.Shared/Toilet/Systems/SharedToiletSystem.cs

@@ -79,7 +79,7 @@ namespace Content.Shared.Toilet.Systems
 
         private void OnActivateInWorld(EntityUid uid, ToiletComponent comp, ActivateInWorldEvent args)
         {
-            if (args.Handled)
+            if (args.Handled || !args.Complex)
                 return;
 
             args.Handled = true;