Decouple interactions from hands, cleanup old events, add new fears (#28393)

* ok basic shit

* second part

* pretend it isn't real it can't hurt you.

* 👁️ 👁️

* shadowcommander review

Content.Server/Pinpointer/PinpointerSystem.cs

@@ -45,10 +45,15 @@ public sealed class PinpointerSystem : SharedPinpointerSystem
 
     private void OnActivate(EntityUid uid, PinpointerComponent component, ActivateInWorldEvent args)
     {
+        if (args.Handled || !args.Complex)
+            return;
+
         TogglePinpointer(uid, component);
 
         if (!component.CanRetarget)
             LocateTarget(uid, component);
+
+        args.Handled = true;
     }
 
     private void OnLocateTarget(ref FTLCompletedEvent ev)