Decouple interactions from hands, cleanup old events, add new fears (#28393)

* ok basic shit

* second part

* pretend it isn't real it can't hurt you.

* 👁️ 👁️

* shadowcommander review

Content.Server/Doors/Systems/AirlockSystem.cs

@@ -67,6 +67,9 @@ public sealed class AirlockSystem : SharedAirlockSystem
 
     private void OnActivate(EntityUid uid, AirlockComponent component, ActivateInWorldEvent args)
     {
+        if (args.Handled || !args.Complex)
+            return;
+
         if (TryComp<WiresPanelComponent>(uid, out var panel) &&
             panel.Open &&
             TryComp<ActorComponent>(args.User, out var actor))