Refactor disarms (#36546)

* Refactor disarms

- Move client stuff to shared
- Cleanup a bunch of stuff
- Ref events
- Fix the swing sound mispredict (I noticed it on target dummies).

* Revert this change

* minor review

* Rebiew

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Co-authored-by: Milon <milonpl.git@proton.me>

Content.Shared/Damage/Systems/StaminaSystem.cs

@@ -119,7 +119,7 @@ public sealed partial class StaminaSystem : EntitySystem
         Dirty(uid, component);
     }
 
-    private void OnDisarmed(EntityUid uid, StaminaComponent component, DisarmedEvent args)
+    private void OnDisarmed(EntityUid uid, StaminaComponent component, ref DisarmedEvent args)
     {
         if (args.Handled)
             return;