Refactor disarms (#36546)

* Refactor disarms

- Move client stuff to shared
- Cleanup a bunch of stuff
- Ref events
- Fix the swing sound mispredict (I noticed it on target dummies).

* Revert this change

* minor review

* Rebiew

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Co-authored-by: Milon <milonpl.git@proton.me>

Content.Shared/Cuffs/SharedCuffableSystem.cs

@@ -723,8 +723,8 @@ namespace Content.Shared.Cuffs
             // if combat mode is on, shove the person.
             if (_combatMode.IsInCombatMode(user) && target != user && user != null)
             {
-                var eventArgs = new DisarmedEvent { Target = target, Source = user.Value, PushProbability = 1};
-                RaiseLocalEvent(target, eventArgs);
+                var eventArgs = new DisarmedEvent(target, user.Value, 1f);
+                RaiseLocalEvent(target, ref eventArgs);
                 shoved = true;
             }