HOTFIX Fix pickup effects occurring with verb creation (#38705)

* fix: don't run pickup effects on verb creation

* review

* redundant

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Co-authored-by: slarticodefast <161409025+slarticodefast@users.noreply.github.com>

Content.Shared/Hands/HandEvents.cs

@@ -1,5 +1,6 @@
 using System.Numerics;
 using Content.Shared.Hands.Components;
+using Content.Shared.Hands.EntitySystems;
 using JetBrains.Annotations;
 using Robust.Shared.Map;
 using Robust.Shared.Serialization;
@@ -156,6 +157,32 @@ namespace Content.Shared.Hands
         }
     }
 
+    /// <summary>
+    /// Raised against an item being picked up before it is actually inserted
+    /// into the pick-up-ers hand container. This can be handled with side
+    /// effects, and may be canceled preventing the pickup in a way that
+    /// <see cref="SharedHandsSystem.CanPickupToHand"/> and similar don't see.
+    /// </summary>
+    /// <param name="User">The user picking up the item.</param>
+    /// <param name="Cancelled">
+    /// If true, the item will not be equipped into the user's hand.
+    /// </param>
+    [ByRefEvent]
+    public record struct BeforeGettingEquippedHandEvent(EntityUid User, bool Cancelled = false);
+
+    /// <summary>
+    /// Raised against a mob picking up and item before it is actually inserted
+    /// into the pick-up-ers hand container. This can be handled with side
+    /// effects, and may be canceled preventing the pickup in a way that
+    /// <see cref="SharedHandsSystem.CanPickupToHand"/> and similar don't see.
+    /// </summary>
+    /// <param name="Item">The item being picked up.</param>
+    /// <param name="Cancelled">
+    /// If true, the item will not be equipped into the user's hand.
+    /// </param>
+    [ByRefEvent]
+    public record struct BeforeEquippingHandEvent(EntityUid Item, bool Cancelled = false);
+
     /// <summary>
     ///     Raised when putting an entity into a hand slot
     /// </summary>